Thursday, December 31, 2009
Happy New Year! Kid-Friendly Ideas
Ticker-Tape Tubes
Glue a piece of tissue paper to one end of a toilet-paper roll and fill with confetti. Seal opposite end with tissue paper and glue a ribbon the paper's center. Pull the cord for a shower.
Top Hats
Fold clsasic paper hats and let the kids go wild with decorations. To keep the project organized, fill the cups of a muffin tin with fun materials like sequins, rhinestones, felt shapes, and paper scraps.
Freeze Frame
Make it a tradition to tkae a family portrait on New Year's Day. Create signs that spell out the digits of the year so that everyone is holding a number. Give an exclamation point to the fifth family member.
Sweet Treats
Prepare a chocolate fondue feast with cubed pound cake and lots of fruit for dipping. Then serve kids juice mixed with seltzer in plastic champagne flutes. Now that's a kiddy celebration worth toasting!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Recipe: Minty Milk
Minty Milk
Stir things up at snacktime by using leftover candy canes to create a calcium-packed drink that has about 25 fewer calories than chocolate milk. It's like a junior latte, minus the caffeine of course.
1 - Splash: Warm a cup of low-fat milk on medium for 5-10 minutes. Mix in a few drops of peppermint extract (find it in the spice aisle of the supermarket).
2 - Crush: Break a candy cane into a couple of small pieces and chop it on your cutting board with a sharp knife.
3 - Froth: Whisk milk in the blender for 2 minutes or use a frother. Pour into cups and top with crushed peppermint. Let kids stir it with a small candy cane. One dairy serving licked for the day!
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Raising Grateful Kids
5 Ways to Raise a Grateful Child
Life won't always gift your child with exactly his heart's desire. But there are ways you can make sure that, underneath it all, he learns to appreciate what he has.
By Patty Onderko, Parenting
I was 7 years old when I received a tiny Christmas present -- about the size of an eraser -- awkwardly wrapped and covered in tape. My sister's boyfriend, Jeff, was visiting and had considerately brought gifts for his girlfriend's three younger siblings. Mine, though, was by far the smallest. I remember opening it up to reveal a miniature ceramic dog -- a cold, hard nothing that fit in the palm of my hand -- and thinking how unlucky I was. I gave Jeff my best cold shoulder the rest of the day.
And I've felt guilty about it ever since. Partly because, in hindsight, Jeff's gift was very thoughtful: I'd been obsessed with my dollhouse, and he had managed to find one accessory my dream home did not yet have -- a pet. Still, I couldn't look past the size of the gift to be grateful for the amount of care that had gone into choosing it.
In this, experts say, I wasn't an unusual kid: For distractible, still-developing children (and that's pretty much all of them), gratitude can be hard-won. While many can be trained to say "please" and "thank you" beginning at about 18 months, true appreciativeness and generosity take time to seed and blossom.
"There's a difference between encouraging thankfulness in your kids and actually expecting it," says Claire Lerner, a child-development specialist at Zero to Three, a nonprofit organization dedicated to the healthy development of kids and families. "Raising a grateful child is an ongoing process."
Vicki Hoefle, director of Parenting on Track, a parent-education program based in East Middlebury, VT (and the mother of five teenagers), concurs: "As nice as it is to think about having a five-year-old who appreciates and shows gratitude for everything, the truth is, parents can feel successful if they raise a thirty-five-year-old who embodies that grateful spirit."
So, to Jeff Galvin I offer a long-overdue "Thank you." To everyone else, here's how to avoid getting derailed by five not-so-thankful-kid moments, both this holiday season and all year long:
Your 9-year-old keeps a running -- and growing -- list of toys he has to have. He's up to number 23 this season.
In-The-Moment Fix "Emphasize that you appreciate there are many things he wants, but let him know it will only be possible to get a few of them," says Robert Brooks, Ph.D., a psychologist at Harvard Medical School and coauthor of Raising a Self-Disciplined Child. That way, you won't make him feel greedy or foolish for compiling a lengthy list, but you will set his expectations. Another idea: Ask him to make a second list, equal in number to the things he wants to get, of things or actions he is willing to give, suggests Maureen Healy, author of 365 Perfect Things to Say to Your Kids. For example: 1) Clean his room, 2) Help you find a charity that the family can donate to, 3) Pitch in when Dad starts wrapping presents, 4) Make a holiday card. Last, if you're in for belt-tightening this year, let him know. Be honest, but keep it simple and undramatic so you don't scare him. Instead of saying "Dad might lose his job, so we have to cut back" -- which might make him sure you'll be losing the house next -- say something like "Nothing major is going to change, but we'll have to wait until next year to go on vacation and we have to hold off on getting the new bike you wanted." It's likely your kid will think "Okay, I can live with that," says Lerner.
Long-Term Strategy Help him understand that gifts are thoughtful gestures, not just a way for him to score materialistic gain, says Lerner. Anytime he receives a present, point out everything the giver put into it. If a classmate makes him a friendship bracelet, for example, say "Oh, wow -- Lucy remembered that you thought these were cool. She picked out colors she knows you like, and it probably took her a whole hour to make. That is so nice." Do this enough times and he'll get the "quality, not quantity" idea before you know it.
Your 5-year-old grimaces at the stuffed Elmo her aunt gives her and says, "But I wanted a Barbie!"
In-The-Moment Fix "The concept of hiding your own negative feelings to protect someone else's is way too complex for kids five and under," says Lerner. (Older kids get better and better but will still have frequent slipups.) So validate your daughter's feelings without responding critically, says Brooks. Say "I know you wanted a Barbie, but let's think about all the different ways we can play with Elmo." You can also step in and model the appropriate response -- and defuse the uncomfortable situation -- by exclaiming something like "Wow, that was so thoughtful, wasn't it, Alli? Aunt Karen remembered you needed mittens!" This trick works for all ages: If your older son receives a gift he already owns, for example, say "Oh, cool! That's your favorite game!"
Long-Term Strategy Before any gift-getting occasion, prepare your child for the possibility that she may not like all her presents, but at the same time, let her know that it's still important to show her appreciation. Remind her that people put effort into trying to find her the best thing. Then devise a special cue between the two of you, suggests Lerner, that reminds her to say thank you. When you see her mouth turning down, you can clap your hands and say "Great present!" to snap her back into good-manners mode.
You can't even take your kid to get socks or lightbulbs without him whining for you to buy him something -- seemingly anything.
In-The-Moment Fix Before you go on any shopping trip, inform your child that you'll be hitting the mall to, say, buy gifts for his cousins. "Engage him in the process," says Lerner. "Ask him what his cousin Jane likes and which toy you should get her. Get him excited about buying for someone else." At the same time, make it clear that you won't be able to buy anything for him. Then, if your son throws a fit at the store, you can refer back to that conversation, and say something like "I know it's hard to be here when you're not getting anything, but that's the rule. Now, I really need your help finding something for Jane." Let's be honest: That might not be enough to stop his whining. But steel yourself and stay strong. Caving in will only teach him that he will eventually get his way if he complains loud or long enough.
Long-Term Strategy Your weekends may be errand time, but try to avoid spending all your family moments pushing a shopping cart. That way, your kids won't think acquiring stuff is the leisure-time norm. (Don't get us wrong, though: We know those flattering jeans are sometimes an absolute necessity!) Denver mom Beth Korin says she and her two boys, ages 7 and 9, frequently head to the library, an indoor pool, or a rock-climbing gym instead. "We try to think of things we can do that don't involve hanging out in stores," she says. Prepare kids for these events the same way you would for gifts ("We're going to have a big, delicious meal with all of your favorite foods, and then we're going to play games!"). The idea you want to get across is that having experiences can be just as exciting as accumulating things (if not more).
Your 6-year-old gobbles down the Teddy Grahams that another parent at the playground gives him. But when you prod him to say "Thank you," he won't.
In-The-Moment Fix It's easy to turn this "teachable moment" into a battle of wills -- one where you're repeating "I didn't hear you say thank you!" to your tantrum-ing child while the person he's supposed to thank is backing away in discomfort. But, explains Lerner, the fact that your son doesn't always say the words likely just means they haven't become a habit for him yet. "And getting into power struggles actually impedes the process," she says. So while you should definitely remind your kids to give thanks, it's best not to make a big deal about it if it doesn't happen.
Long-Term Strategy Remind yourself to model grateful behavior. When your cookie-muncher goes silent, go ahead and say the necessary "Thank you so much!" for him. (At least until he gets older and can be counted on to follow your cues.) In your own everyday interactions, always offer warm thank-yous and praise to grocery store clerks, gas-station attendants, waiters, teachers -- anyone who's helpful to you or him. You may think your child isn't paying attention to those small moments, but he actually is.
When you say no to a DS that, according to your daughter, "everyone at school" has, she complains that all her BFFs get cooler stuff than she does.
In-The-Moment Fix Sympathize with her frustration, but remind your daughter that, actually, many people don't have as much as she does. How? Begin a tradition of charity work and donating. Start simple: As young as age 3, children can be encouraged to go through their belongings and pick out items to donate, says Lerner. Every year after that, they can get more involved. Last year, Gabrielle Melchionda of Yarmouth, ME, and her two sons, ages 5 and 9, volunteered to decorate low-income homes for Christmas. "It was so nice to see all of the kids, mine and those who lived there, on their bellies coloring together," she says. "Later, my kids asked things like 'Was that the whole house?' It sparked conversation for months. It was an experience none of us will forget."
Long-Term Strategy Expose your daughter to people from all walks of life. "We often try to shield our children from those who are less fortunate, but it's important that kids know how lucky they are," says Dale McGowan, a father of three in Atlanta and coauthor of Parenting Beyond Belief. So the next time you see a homeless person, pass a shelter, or read a story in the news about a needy family, he suggests, ask questions -- "Where do you think that man sleeps?" or "Can you imagine what it would be like not to have a home?" -- that get your kids to put themselves in someone else's shoes. (At the same time, assure them that your family will always have a place to call home.) You'll be surprised -- and pleased -- at how often kids are moved to want to help.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Holiday Hints: Surviving Santa
Do a dry run
Days before, give your child a glimpse of St. Nick from afar, says Amy Stone, onwer of Jady Images in Miami. "When you come back for the actual photo, he'll be more familiar with what to expect."
Carry Supplies
Snacks and toys are key. Hungry kids are likelier to act out.
Distract
"Put a piece of tape on your child's finger if he gets fidgety," says Marlboro, NJ, photog Jill Caren. "Sometimes that's distracting enough that he'll forget Santa's even there."
Present his requests
Tie up his wish list with a bow, and have him hand it over, suggests Heather Dillon, a Scottsdale, AZ, photog. "It places the attention on Santa, not on him."
Think narrative gold
As the Santa at Holiday World, a theme park in Santa Claus, IN, says: "Sometimes those unposed moments make the best photos."
-Michelle Hainer
Monday, December 14, 2009
Elf on the Shelf: A Christmas Tradition
This charming tradition began for our family when my children were very small. Like most children through the ages, they wanted to know how Santa really knew who was naughty or who was nice. Their answer, as in my own childhood, came in the form of a small pixie-elf.
Carol
Most bookstores carry the gift set; I've also seen it advertised at the Catholic Supply, Hallmark, and other specialty shops. The gift set includes a stuffed elf and the book - which explains that the elf is watching for the best behavior. I've also seen that you can purchase just the book - so my friend Melissa found me an adorable elf at Catholic Supply (Item #521250; $8.95 each). (We have the one all the way to the right...)
Sunday, December 13, 2009
A Letter from the North Pole
"Google 'letter from Santa' and you'll find many sites selling customized letters. But few people know that the U.S. Post office can help too. Write a letter as if you were Santa Claus. Put it in a stamped envelope addressed to your child. Mail that by December 15 in a stamped, larger envelope to North Pole Holiday Cancellation, Postmaster, 4141 Postmark Dr., Anchorage, AK 99530-9998. Your letter will arrive with a "North Pole" postmark!"
- American Baby magazine, November 2009
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Gingerbread Houses
So when I saw this is the November 2009 issue of American Baby magazine, I didn't think it would be beneficial for me, but may be for some of you out there. :)
"Fake It...Pretend You Baked It! Assembling a gingerbread house is an activity better suited for older kids. With a baby, consider mail-ordering this finished, pretty centerpiece ($50, or $60 with the personalized sign; redenvelope.com)"
Friday, December 11, 2009
Nativity Playset
Wooden Nativity Playset:
I saw this one first in Abbey Press, but they must not carry it anymore. However, I found what appears to be the same set by doing a google search. This information came from Amazon (retail around $25):
The Wooden Nativity Play Set is a great way to teach children about the first Holy Night. Made of high quality, durable wood and packed in an attractive retail pack, this 19 piece set will provide hours and hours of inspirational fun! Allow children the opportunity of having their own beautiful nativity set to play with so mom and dad's will not get broken! Recommended for ages three years and up.Magnetic Nativity Playset:
Another idea is a magnetic Nativity Scene. I've seen these two at Catholic Supply.
Above: Children's Magnetic Nativity Sceneset of 12; wood and felt figures. Let children play on your fridge with this adorable magnetic nativity set. Reposition for hours of fun! (Item #22938) $32.50
Above: 24pc Magnetic Advent Calendar: 24 adorable magnets to cling to your fridge! Children love to add figures each day! Makes a great hands-on set for your children to play & learn about the nativity. Wood/Paper. Canvas storage bag. (Item #18768) $17.95
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Remembering a Home...
Ornament from Personal Creations
Description from the Personal Creations website: #3793; $29.95
A Personal Creations Exclusive! These Hand Painted House Glass Ornaments, brighten your tree with the image of the place that’s dear to you. Just send us your photo or upload your digital image through our website (see order form for details) and we’ll hand paint it onto our 3 1/2”Dia. glass ornament. We add any message on 2 lines, up to 25 chars. per line. Comes on a red ribbon for hanging. Please allow 3-4 weeks for delivery.
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
'We're Pregnant' or Ultrasound Ornament
The first one I had seen was from Abbey Press (#45349; retailed for $14.99), but they must have discontinued it (?) because I can't find it. However, it was similar to these that I found:
All of them, including the one from Abbey Press, had this quote on the back side:
Ultrasound Ornament - We await our little miracle, at this glorious time of year. This glimpse of your beginnings, we will always hold dear. Grow healthy and strong, we are waiting for you. A sweet Christmas celebration, for a precious life anew.
Following this were spots for "Ultrasound Date" and "Baby's Due Date"
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
A Cleaner Keyboard
Instead of paying for the compressed air canisters to clean the keyboard, turn the hair dryer on high to blow the crumbs away!
Monday, December 7, 2009
Bag Cap from Copco
Personally, I like my chip-clips, but I think this would be great for bagged brown sugar, powdered sugar, etc.
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Roll-Up Piano
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Christmas Cookies
And here's the link to all of them:
Friday, December 4, 2009
Pompom Gift Wrap
Thursday, December 3, 2009
The Silly Wagon Onesie Birth Annoucements
It's a birth annoucement screen-printed onto a onesie. How cute! You could even take a picture of baby in that onesie and just mail out the photos as annoucements!
(sorry - for some reason, the photo won't upload...)
http://www.thesillywagon.com/catalog.php?item=2052
Monday, November 9, 2009
Hooking on those sippy cups...
Connor is infamous for dropping his cups while in the van. And then they roll and I can't reach them while driving. I'd seen the Bottlelink, but haven't purchased them.
We already have the Inchbug Labels that wrap around the cups. See here for that post. I'm thinking I'm going to use those as well as the Bright Starts Lots of Links to connect the cups to the boys' car seats. Now, I know that the links come apart, so it's not fool-proof, but, it's materials I already have. Worth a shot.
A coworker mentioned these, which she has only found at Walgreen's. They are the No Throw straps; a 2-pack is $5.99. Might have to go buy those before our Thanksgiving travels...
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Simply Adorable Thanksgiving Crafts
A Stylish Centerpiece
What You'll Need
16" to 18" sticks
Acrylic paint
Paper grocery bags
White paper
Glue
Colored pencils
Tall drinking glasses
Beans
Lentils or split peas
Make It
1. Paint sticks different colors and let dry.
2. Cut 5" circles from grocery bags and cut 3-1/2" circles from white paper. Mount white circles on top of brown ones with glue and let dry. Write letters on each of the white circles to write a Thanksgiving sentiment (we spelled out "Give Thanks").
3. Glue each circle to a painted stick and anchor in a glass full of beans, lentils, or split peas. Display down the center of your dining table or along a buffet.
Branching Out Muslin Placemats: These hand-stamped muslin placemats can be used year after year.
Ring Around the Napkin
Pop off the nut portion of an acorn and glue a pom-pom in its place. Trim to create a conical shape, then tie string to the stem.
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Cool Turkey Place Card Craft
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Traveling With Kids Tips
Mike and I took the boys to see some of his family last March and we took them to the lake (once!) this summer. Traveling with infants is rough!
Here's an article I found in one of my magazine piles:
The Ultimate Guide to Traveling with Kids: Road Trips: Surviving the Ride
Monday, November 2, 2009
Best Kid-Tested Toys
Best Kid-Tested Toys of 2008
This article was in the November 2008 issue of Parenting magazine.
Mom-Tested! Toys of the Year 2008
Making Toy-Purchasing Decisions...
"Spotlight: FatBrainToys.com: Mark and Karen Carson, Nebraskan parents of three, started this website (out of their garage!) to help parents make more informed toy-purchasing decisions. They pick toys carefully, write long descriptions, and post where toys are made. Tons of reviews round out the site."
I'm big on reading reviews before making a big purchase - off the top of my head, this year I've searched for a garmet rack, a sewing machine, a play kitchen (for the boys, of course!), etc. I don't want to buy something and then hate it...so I plan ahead.
I frequently read Amazon, but this website seems like it would also be helpful for kids' stuff. I checked it out - they don't appear to have reviews for everything on their site, and you can also purchase off the site. Wasn't exactly what I expected, but seems good!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Floret Dolls - look at the fabric!
Connor (above)
Logan (above)
So, do you see it? It's the same fabric! Now, some may know that I searched high and low for "the fabric" (because I made their shirts - with assistance). I had a vision in my head, and went to several stores before finding the right fabric. How exciting to see it on a doll that was featured in a magazine. I know, I'm a bit corny, but I think it's cool.
Here's the information on the doll, written in the November 2008 issue of American Baby magazine:
"Foreign Friends: Simone Kaplan was born in Brazil, designed costumes in California, studied tapestry in Portugal, and is now raising two songs in Brooklyn. Their drawings inspire her creations, such as these dolls. floretnyc.com" -Janeen Koban
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Halloween Photo Album Idea
A friend with grown-up children told me about this great idea! It's so simple, but I had not thought of doing this...just wanted to share with other moms...Happy Halloween! This is our first year to really "do" Halloween with Soren, so I'm just starting it now.
Today I started a Halloween photo album where we'll put our favorite pics of Soren (and any future kiddos) during the Halloween season every year. I am not good about scrapbooking, but this seems really manageable! I picked up a regular photo album at Michael's and some cute Halloween scrapbook stickers to decorate it. I also bought a few orange scrapbook pages to cut out some backgrounds for typing a little note each year. I'm going to go back and print out some of last year's pics from 3-month-old Soren, as well. I found an album (40% off) that has places for horizontal and vertical pictures.I just know that Soren is going to love looking back at these pictures each year. (And me, too!)
On a side-note, this could really be done for any holiday or birthday. Great job, Jessica! It looks fantastic!
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Activities: Silly and Spooky Fall Fun
Play catch
On a windy day, have everyone try to catch leaves as they fall, calling out the color of the leaf before grabbing it. The person who can score five leaves first wins the game. (If it's not windy, have a grown-up throw leaves in the air; little ones will love helping with this job, too.)
Leaf through it
Before heading inside, collect a pile of colorful, newly fallen leaves (dry ones will crumble) for these classic crafts: Make a place mat by arranging leaves between two sheets of clear contact paper; use scissors to trim the edges. Create stamp art by applying water-based paint to the veined (back) side of a leaf and pressing it onto construction paper. Or place double-sided tape on the back of your finds and let toddlers stick them onto a window.
Try a scary snack
Sustain hungry goblins with creepy centipedes, made by sticking crunchy chow mein noodles on both sides of a string-cheese stick. For a sweet spider, insert four two-inch "legs" of thin licorice pieces into the sides of a cupcake. Add Red Hots or M&M's to the frosting for eyes.
Liven up meals
Food that stares back at you shouldn't be a once-a-year occasion. Sliced black olives can turn a mini-pizza into a jack-o'-lantern; smiley-face peas can perk up mashed potatoes.
Have a ball
Create festive bowling pins by painting ten empty one-liter soda or water bottles with orange poster paint. When they're dry, use black paint to add jack-o'-lantern faces. Then line them up, grab a ball, and let the game begin.
Feed the birds
Tie a long string or ribbon around a pinecone and then slather it with peanut butter. Roll it in seeds (sesame, sunflower, pumpkin) and hang it up from a tree branch or clothesline. Watch the birds dig in!
Monday, October 26, 2009
Jokari Cool Cones
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Design Your Own Lamp
Saturday, October 24, 2009
MizPee.com
"Goody Tech: When You Gotta Go; This is the best thing since...well, we think this is the greatest thing to ever hit a mom's cell phone: mispee.com, a new website that helps you find the nearest, cleanest restroom instantly when you're out and about. Just download the site onto your mobile browser. Then whenever you're in need, enter your current location and a list of area loos appears."
But seriously! St. Louis is not a city in their list? Camdenton and Ozark, Missouri are? That just seems weird to me. Come on you germaphobic moms, let's get on this! My kids aren't potty training yet, but next year I might need this! :)
Featured in Parents magazine, May 2008
Friday, October 23, 2009
Bobo Glove
Thursday, October 22, 2009
BabiePlates
"License to Stroll: never lose your kid's ride in a sea of sameness again! A personalized plate gives your wheels standout panache. Just don't blame us if the stroller police give you a ticket for being too fabulous. ($40; babieplates.com)
Featured in Parents magazine, August 2008
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
The "Nose Hose"
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
StrollAway Stroller Hook
"Out of Sight! Tired of tripping over all the baby gear in your home? The StrollAway is a mom-invented over-the-door stroller storage system that's perfect for families who are tight on space (and who isn't?). Slide the metal frame over a closet door, then hang your stroller from the hooks to get it off the floor and out of the way. Now why didn't we think of that? $50; metrotots.com"
What a great idea! I can see this being extremely helpful if you don't have a garage or a shed...
Seems like there must be other hooks available - some that might not cost so much. Organized Living? The Container Store?
Monday, October 19, 2009
For Little Cooks: Fiesta's Head Chefs
Sunday, October 18, 2009
"Tech TLC" - saving your wet cell phone
"Tech TLC: Did baby drop your cell phone or digital camera in the toilet? (Oh, it happens!) Try this, from Best Buy's geek Squad: first, don't try to turn it on. Remove the battery and seal both it and the device in Tupperware, along with a silica gel pack (found in a purse or shoebox - or in a bag of beef jerky, if you don't have a new purse around). Wait a day for the gel to absorb liquid before reassembling your device and turning it on."
I hadn't heard this before, and Mike's cell phone seems to always be getting wet - he sets it on the counter, the night-stand, etc. I think we'll try this technique next time!
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Batteries - Part II
So, I made a list, and I carry that list in my wallet. On the list - the brand of the toy, the name of the toy, the type of battery, and how many of that battery.
(Note - also on that list are kinds of light bulbs, and which light in the house they belong to. Because that's something else I always forget.) :)
Friday, October 16, 2009
What kind of batteries does it need?
The tip: "Genius Reader Tip - Battery Trick: Using a Label Maker, create stickers to attach to any toys and gear that tells you what kind of batteries it requires."
I think it would also be beneficial to indicate on the sticker how many of that battery.
I have a Label Maker like this one, from Target for under $20:
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Target Reusable Tote Bag Credit
Target is becoming more eco-friendly by offering a $0.05 credit for every reusable tote bag that you use when you check out!
It does not have to be a Target bag it can be any bag that you want to use. They will scan a bright red sticker that has a UPC code on it beside or behind the register which will give you a $0.05 credit for each bag that you use. It's not a lot but every penny counts and it's a great way to give us an incentive to be more eco-friendly!
I'm a big Target shopper, and I try really hard to use the tote bags, so I'll take a few cents off my total!
Update: On Thursday, 10/29, I visited the Kirkwood Target. I asked about the tote bag credit, and she had a bar code on the register to scan. I had two bags with me, and though I only needed to use one - she still gave me credit for the two. Bonus!
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Pampers Rewards Program
Also, there are occasionally Gifts to Grow codes on the web that anyone can put into their bank. Check out some of the blogs on my "Helpful Info Sites" for more information.
I've gotten books for the boys and a $25 Applebee's Gift Card - for free. Well worth it!
The often have Starbucks gift cards (though I'm not a coffee fan) as well as Shutterfly freebies in their Rewards Catalog.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Tikatok Books
How cute is that? Take those drawings that kids do in school, and turn it into their own masterpiece...
http://tikatok.com/
(Featured in Parents magazine, April 2009)
Monday, October 12, 2009
Mudpuppy Money Banks
American Baby had this in their April 2009 issue: Mudpuppy Money Banks
They are available from galison.com - but I just love the divided parts, so kids can learn to divy money up between Spend, Share, and Save. These cost $14, and there are several different designs for the buckets.
For all the crafty people out there...this could so easily be done! And I'm sure for cheaper. :)
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Saving My Floors...
Saturday, October 10, 2009
My Best Baby-Proofing Suggestion...Play Yard
We have used ours in many different set-ups - as a rectangle to keep the boys contained when they were rolling everywhere...as a long-line gate across the living room/dining room opening all the way over to block the hallway opening...and now, we just have it blocking the living room/dining room since we have the spare bedroom set up as a playroom (we keep our bedroom and the bathroom doors shut).
But, this doesn't HAVE to be snapped together in a circle/square shape all the time - which we love and have certainly gotten more use out of for it.
These are similar items:
Li'l Playzone with Lights & Sounds - which is available from One Step Ahead and Target
Superyard XT - Babies R Us, etc.
As I stated I got mine second-hand from another twin mom. She also had 10 panels, whereas the typical one comes with six. I have seen lots of these on Craigslist (etc.), so absolutely look for them used! But they go fast - so be prepared for that! To search, you might look for play zone, playzone, play yard, playyard, etc. And don't forget, the would also be great to use outside, especially if you don't have a fenced-in yard!
Friday, October 9, 2009
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Preparing for Winter - Mittens & Gloves
And, if you already have the mittens/gloves for your little one, don't buy new! Jusst attach a string to the tops of the mittens/gloves. Give it a few, strong stitches, and you should be good to go - I don't sew, but that seems easy enough!
Gift-Giving Traditions - for children and adults
- I get them books for that holiday. For example, I just picked them up Halloween books at the store the other day.
- The other tradition was one that my mom did for us when we were little...we got an ornament every year for Christmas...it usually came in our stocking, and the ornament usually gave in indication of what we enjoyed that year. The boys each received a "1st Christmas" ornament last year, and I've been on the hunt for their ornament for this year. I'm pretty sure that their ornament for 2009 will have penguins on it, since they have been obsessed with this dvd all year! The current song they are obsessed with on the dvd is the butterfly song, but not very boy-ish, so I think I'll go with the penguins instead. :)
St. Nick's/Christmas
Socks
Christmas pajamas
Ornament
CD
For children:
My sister-in-law Jamie started giving my niece the Precious Moments Birthday Train Set when Rachel was born. Each year for her birthday, Rachel gets another piece of the ceramic train set...it looks like there is a piece up to age 16. My sister Katie said that was one of Rachel's favorite gifts, and that each year she looks forward to seeing 'which animal will add to the train'. Too cute!
When my boys were getting ready for their first birthday, Jamie asked me about this train set for Connor and Logan. After much debate, we determined the Precious Moments set wasn't very boy-ish, so we decided on a real, battery-powered train set. The boys each received a train car for their 1st birthday, as well as some pieces of track, etc., and will continue to get a piece of the train each year. This way, wheen they are older, they will have a train set to put around their Christmas tree, play with, etc. Putting the train on the floor around the Christmas tree was always a tradition when I was a kid...and it was "Scott's train". So it seems even more fitting that the boys are receiving their train sets from Uncle Scott and Aunt Jamie.
I'm a super-slacker on this one, but I started a tradition for my nieces Sammie, Rachel, and Taylor. This tradition was getting them a charm (for a charm bracelet) each year...for example, for their baptism, they got a small cross. Sammie was obsessed with purses one year, so I that year I got her a purse, etc. Like I said - I'm pretty far behind on this one, but I do have the intentions of catching up one day...my plan is to give them a "complete" bracelet on their 13th (or 16th, or whatever) birthday to exemplify their lives.
For adults:
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Best of Chums Crochet Booties
These were featured in the October 2009 edition of American Baby magazine:
Best of Chums crochet booties - $22 from Amazon.com
There are other designs as well - animals, taxicabs, snowmen
So freakin' cute, but size 0-12 months - bummer for my boys!
No aspirin for babies...
Please review the label of all medications that you administer to your children when they have a fever. Consult your doctor before giving them anything. Do not give them aspirin or other products that contain salicylates. Another name for aspirin is “salicylate”. There is the possibility of Reye’s Syndrome in children with influenza or viral illness, that receive salicylates.
Remember to tell grandparents about not giving aspirin for a fever! Some of us grew up on baby aspirin, and our parents may think it’s OK to give it for a fever.
I checked my bottles of Tylenol and Motrin - those are safe and do not contain salicylates. The linked website confirms that.
Also, this page gives lists of medications (over-the-counter and prescription) as well as topical products that contact salicylates.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
A follow-up to Babies R Us Rewards - Pampers Diapers
Disclaimer: I am not guaranteeing this will work - it might depend on your salesperson. There is the fine print on the coupon that it's not valid with any other offers for that same item...but I have done this once - and kicked myself for not buying more at that time - because I think February was the last time I saw it.
Okay, first - this is the email I received:
http://www.pampers.com/en_US/emails/Tru_Bru_Oct/web_tru_bru.html
Basically, it's one of those deals where you buy 2 boxes, you get a $15 gift card for your next purchase. The valid dates are Saturday, 10/10 through Monday, 10/12.
BUT, the current Babies R Us/Toys R Us ad, valid through this Saturday 10/10, has a coupon for $5/off each box.
Go here for the weekly ad: http://toysrus.shoplocal.com/toysrus/default.aspx?action=entryflash&
(For me, it's pages 8-9 that has the coupon)
So, if you went Saturday, you could attempt to use the $5/coupon per box. You could also use manufacturer coupons for Pampers that you have. And finally, the register should automatically do the gift card when your 2nd box is scanned.
This makes a box of diapers go from $40.99 to $28.49 (if you consider the amount you are getting for a future purchase)...and then add on your manu. coupons. And don't forget to have your Rewards card scanned.
Monday, October 5, 2009
Unique Baby Gift Ideas...
2. Baby's 1st Alphabet Block - Suzanne likes to give this gift for new babies, so when Luke was born, I got it for him. :) Ironically, I found this one today when looking for my link for #6.
3. When I was little, my godmother gave me a personalized Sesame Street book - myself, my cousin, and my dog were all characters in the book. I still have it! I found this site, which offers the same sort of thing, but not just with Sesame Street.
4. I see me books - the same sort of idea as #3, but other options
5. Birthday Keepsakes - Suzanne has ordered from this site, and I saw these when ordering supplies for the boys' 1st birthday party.
6. Personalized Frame - I've given frames with this to my nieces Rachel and Taylor. I found a silver one at an outlet mall that I had engraved for Rachel and ordered this one for Taylor.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
Unique Bridal Shower & Wedding Gift Ideas...
1. Alphatography - of course my own side-business has to be #1
2. A personalized drink tub
- Several years ago, this one from Lillian Vernon was my wedding/shower gift of choice
- Suzanne's sister Trisha started making some as well; these are on her Etsy site; Trisha also makes a personalized tray that can coordinate with the bucket
3. A Wine Theme - corkscrew, a wine bottle coaster, wine glass charms, coasters for glasses (some even have initals on them - get their last name initial!), a bottle of wine, wine glasses. You could also add cheese and crackers and combine this with a picnic basket idea...
4. A Beer Theme - Sometimes the couple registers for beer glasses...you could have them etched with their monogram, last initial, etc. Include a six-pack (or more) of their favorite beer!
5. A picnic basket with various items - can be made by you or pre-purchased. Some things to include - include a service at least for two!: melamine plates, napkins, melamine wine glasses, a tablecloth, silverware, a corkscrew, a cutting board
6. BBQ tools - might also include bbq seasonings and a cookbook for bbqing
7. A recipe book - or a photo album with some of your favorite recipes included, printed on
index cards. You could also put this in a gift bag with some of the utensils the couple registered for - slotted spoon, serving, spoon, tongs, spatula, etc.
8. The last wedding I went to, the bride had registered for this container of cookie cutters from Crate and Barrel. Long story short, I put together my own set of cookie cutters, for way cheaper from a little store in IL that specializes in baking. Then I added some of mine, my grandma's, and her grandma's favorite cookie recipes. (Our grandmas knew each other years and years ago and are both deceased, so this was really special to her...plus it was my best friend's sister...so it was special to me.)
9. Gardening tools - even if the couple doesn't garden, weeds still need to be pulled. You could include gloves, a pot, a garden hose, and some tools.
10. A friend of mine got this for a shower gift - holiday decorations for every holiday. The gift-giver had been collecting them throughout the whole year on clearance! St. Pat's wreath, Halloween fingertip towels, Christmas cloth napkins, etc. It was QUITE cute, but took a lot of planning ahead of time.
11. Suzanne and I got married 2 weeks apart...after the weddings, we both mentioned how we didn't get many personalized gifts. Strange, we thought - but we ordered these photo frames for ourselves. We have the black one, and on the frame you can put the couples names (first and last) as well as the wedding date. Too cute!
Babies R Us Rewards Program - Pampers Diapers
I already had the Rewards Card - basically, you get a reward card and you can accumulate money towards gift-certificates...I was already participating in that. What I didn't know was that they also had a program targeted at diapers. What it is: Buy 9 Pampers Diapers Value Boxes, Get the 10th FREE. The Value Boxes are the 64 count - 252 count, depending on the size of the diaper. A box of those diapers retails at Babies R Us for $40.99; Sam's has them for the same price (or maybe $1 cheaper/box), but then doesn't have the 10th box free.
PLUS - Babies R Us frequently offers coupons off those boxes of diapers: $5 off/box or $15 gift card for the next purchase with the purchase of 2 (or sometimes 3) boxes
I try and minimumly do the $5 off/box - this makes the box $35.99.
DOUBLE PLUS - Did you know that Babies R Us also accepts manufacturer coupons? So I can get an additional $1, $1.50, and sometimes $2 off each box with a man. coupon.
By using both sets of coupons, I could get a box of diapers for as low as $33.99.
WHAT I DIDN'T REALIZE - I guess I never read the fine-print...or they changed it on me and I didn't know it. You can only accumulate a free box every 9 months...I purchased a 9th box in April 2009, so I couldn't get another free box until January 2010! What!?! I'm writing this in October, and I've already purchased 13 boxes since April...so I'm already due for a free box, plus I'm headed towards a 3rd free box. I found this out on Friday...needless to say, I was pretty pissed. (For most of you, this probably wouldn't happen, but remember, I go through double the diapers...)
But, I found a loop-hole. I picked up another rewards card - I'm going to put this one in my mother-in-law's name...and start accumulating diapers on that card as well. Connor and Logan are her only grand-kids, so it's not like I'm competing with anyone else in the family...
Saturday, October 3, 2009
ExpediteSTL - IKEA Delivery
UNTIL...I found Expedite STL. So see, this is how my Craigslist addiction comes to my advantage. I saw a post about IKEA delivery on CL. I checked it out - it linked to a website. Basically, the owners of Expedite travel to IKEA once a month...they will pick up your items and either deliver them to your house or you may pick them up in Chesterfield. You pay a fee for their service, in addition to the cost of the items.
I used Expedite STL this summer to purchase some items - Excellent Service! They travelled on the weekend, contacted me on Monday to schedule a drop-off, and delivered to my house on Monday night. I couldn't have been more pleased.
The fee I paid - probably more than shipping would have been (had my items been available to purchase on the internet), but I also had smaller items. BUT, cheaper than I would have paid in gas travelling to/from Chicago. Verdict? Well.worth.it!!!
HGTV - IKEA - Toy Boxes
IKEA Snack Boxes - easy to assemble, stack one on top of the other, low enough for the boys to reach over and get their toys
IKEA Rill Caster - I will say that I haven't added the wheels onto the bottom of the boxes yet. I don't want the boys to be pushing the Snack Boxes around and then them fall. But Angelo recommended them, so I got them. :)
The Downfalls - the boxes have metal corners...worried me a bit, but so far, all is okay. The other thing I wish is that the Snack Boxes had a removable lid...to hide the contents sometimes. :)
Picky Sticky - The Original Picture Stickers
Melissa no longer works at that job, so she can't apply the iron-on transfers anymore. However, I found Picky Sticky on Etsy, and she has some adorable stickers! From what I've read, her stickers are more of a picture-prop - they are not ironed-on, and then are removed after taking the picture. I like this idea because then I could have stuck the monthly stickers in the boys' baby books after taking each monthly picture. Plus, there are some onesies that I could have reused since the boys stayed in some sizes for a while. I currently have 22 monthly onesies (1-11 months) that I'm hanging onto...and not sure what I'm going to do with. Picky Sticky seems a bit more cost-effective while still achieving the same idea.
InchBug Bumpy Name Orbit Labels
The Baby Registry
The Must-Have's
Nursery
Kiddopotamus SwaddleMe and/or Miracle Blanket (also known as 'the straight jacket') - When I was first registering, I thought the idea of these sort of blankets was ridiculous - why not just swaddle them with a receiving blanket? The boys were no more than 3 weeks old when I broke down and bought them...the boys weren't sleeping well because they would break out of the receiving blanket. We started with the SwaddleMe because it was cheaper and I could get it local - worked like a champ for Logan, but not for Connor. Connor still broke out of it, so we splurged for the Miracle Blanket. They work wonders!
Baby Buddies Size-It Closet Organizer - I must say that I don't personally have these, but I've recommended them to friends. I have the Sugar Booger ones from Babies R Us, and I hate them...total waste of money because the six hangers are pre-labeled Newborn, 3-6 month, 6-12 month, 12-18 month, 18-24 month, and toddler. Um, where the heck are the rest? I could have used a 0-3 month (after newborn), a 6-9 month, and a 9-12 month. So, to me they are missing three necessary ones. On the other hand, the Baby Buddies Organizers still include six hangers, but there are 15 labels, so you can remove when they've outgrown those and then add the ones you need. Plus, they are cheaper than the Sugar Booger ones!
Feeding
Fisher-Price Space Saver High Chair - seriously, my husband and I love this item. We love that it attaches to real chairs - in our small kitchen, it really is a space-saver (haha!). When the boys were really small and first started eating, we loved that these chairs reclined - it made it so much easier to get the food in their mouths because their head was already tilted back!
Bumkins Junior Bib - I probably did 5 months of regular food-feeding before purchasing these bibs because they are so darn expensive! But seriously, just buy them...don't bother with the smaller fabric bibs. Mike and I love how easy these are to clean - we can wash them in the sink with soap and water and then lay them out to dry, and they'll be dry by the next feeding time. The bib is large enough to basically cover their whole chest, and the sleeves prevent the boys from pulling the bib off - which they had been doing with the smaller bibs.
Bathing
Bath Rings - The brand that we have is Safety 1st, but apparently they don't make it anymore, so this looks the closest. With having two kids in the tub, I love the rings. It makes it so much easier on us because I know they are supported when sitting on the slippery surface. At 14-months old, the boys are figuring out how to get out of the rings, so it won't be long before they aren't useful for us, but these are well-worth the $5/each I paid - we've used them about six months...and probably could have started a bit earlier.
Munchkin Bath Friends Toy Organizer (Target) - I love this item because it's shape can be manipulated. It fits a ton of stuff inside, and since it has the netting at the bottom, all the water drains easily.
Summer Infant Tub Time Rinse N Pour Pitcher - This folds flat when not in use...a great space-saver!
I'm a Craiglist Addict...
Here is a picture of Logan up top, Connor looking up,
and the boys' girlfriend Genevieve peeking out the window.
I'm picking up my new favorite mommy item today. It is a tv/entertainment center armoire...this is going to become my craft closet. (I guess that means I'm going to get crafty?) I've started accumulating fabric, sewing supplies, etc., and I've been on the Craigslist hunt for a sewing machine. Melissa (Genevieve's mom) and I are going to attempt to build a fold-out desk from the inside of this armoire so that I have a work space. Do you think it can be done? Any suggestions? (Leave them in my comment section if you do...)
This last picture is my inspiration for the fold-out desk...